innocence, trust, exhileration and joy
harmony of opposites.
Have you offered them emotional honesty and genuine access to the feelings you have for them?
Married, Father, United
Rinzai asked the temple steward, “Where have you come from?” 
The temple steward said, “From selling brown rice in the province.”
Rinzai said, “Did you sell all of it?” 
The manager said, “Yes, I sold all of it.” 
Rinzai drew a line with his staff and said, “Have you sold all of this too?” 
Rinzai immediately struck him. 
Later, the cook monk came to Rinzai, who told him about this incident. 
The monk said, “The steward didn’t understand Your Reverence’s intention.” 
A monk asked, “Your Reverence is unwell. Is there anyone who does not
become ill?” 
The monk said, “Does the one who does not get ill take care of Your Reverence?”
Tôzan said, “The old monk is properly taking care of that one.”
The monk said, “How about when your Reverence takes care of that one?” 
Tôzan said, “Then the old monk does not see that there is illness.”
For to despise the present age, 
not to love transitory things, 

unreservedly to stretch out the mind in humility to God and our neighbor, 
to preserve patience against offered insults and, 
to repel the pain of malice from the heart, 
to give one’s property to the poor, 
on God’s account to love even those who are hostile, 

to mourn at the affliction of a neighbor, 

not to exult in the death of one who is an enemy, 
this is the new creature whom the Master of the nations seeks with watchful eye
amid the other disciples, saying: “If, then, any be in Christ a new creature, the old things are passed away. Behold all things are made new”
Roso asked Nansen, “‘People do not recognize the Mani-jewel. I picked it up myself in
the Tathagata treasury.’ What is this treasury?”
Nansen said, “Old Master O exchanges questions and answers with you. That’s it.”
Shiso said, “How about when there is no exchange of questions and answers?” 
Nansen said, “That’s also the treasury.” 
Shiso said, “What is the jewel?” 
Nansen said, “Reverend Shiso!” 
Nansen said, “Get out. You don’t understand my words.”